One day, live on Zoom. Saturday, December 19, 2026. 10am to 6pm Pacific.

Boundaries and Consequences

Learn what a boundary actually is, what it is not, and how to hold one with love.

Most of us were never taught how to set a boundary. We were taught to keep the peace, to give until it hurt, and to call that love. So we say yes when we mean no, we let things slide until we explode, and we call the people who cross our lines the problem, when the truth is we never drew a line at all. A boundary is not a wall and it is not a punishment. It is a clear, loving statement of what you will and will not allow in your life, and a consequence is simply what happens when that statement is not honored.

In this one-day live intensive with Rafael Martinez and Don Hamm, you will learn the difference between a boundary, a request, and an ultimatum, how to create boundaries that protect you and the relationships you care about, how to communicate them without apology or aggression, and how to follow through with consequences that come from love rather than anger. You will leave with your own boundaries written, practiced, and ready to hold.

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